Craigslist Local

How to Let a Man Know You’re Interested

Tough Call: Sex Before Commitment?

In Combat Dating, You Can’t Afford to Fight Like a Girl

Friends With Penalties

The Matrix of Modern Relationships

Old fwb or new shy boy?

The Real Reason Why Men and Women Can’t Be Friends

Is she into me?

Seriously though, again, very good post, and I have someone I am going to pass this along to who I think could be genuinely helped by incorporating some of the items here.

I can see feminists generally being appalled by this list, but all of the things on this list can almost always apply to men, too, in some way or other.

what you’re doing is telling people to be decent, interested, focused and not frivolous or narcississtic.

Alas, the players and feminists of the world tend to be, at beat, bean-counters when it comes to relationships or complete narcissists.

The most important thing about this list: It illustrates that you’re a man’s partner.

I would add–
Only, and ONLY, do this for a man who is interested in being YOUR partner.

Getting the timing down for an appetizer, a main course, and a desert all at once takes practice, but it never fails to impress.

Yeah but I was thinking more of recommending a book or a TV program food network should have this things shouldn’t it?

Escalating emotionally means sitting him down to have “the talk” and inquire about “where is this relationship headed”? That can scare guys off. Do you mean being the first to say the dreaded 3 words “I love you”?

Escalating emotionally isn’t about having “the talk” or asking “where is this relationship headed”. Escalating emotionally isn’t about displaying genuine warmth, interest in him as a human being, and forging a connection. If you do that, then having “the talk” won’t even be something that scares him off.

While I would not ask a guy I’m casually dating to account for his time, I would ask my boyfriend to and DEFINITELY my husband.

Not sure exactly what you mean by this, but if my fiancee popped off with a “what were you doing on day A at time X” in an inquisitive tone, I’d be like WTF.

“5) Have eyes for no one but him – jealousy is probably the most powerful emotion people have. …you can twist the knife in a guy’s heart with a wandering eye. Don’t screw this one up.”